Slow down and enjoy your life...

Last Saturday, I awoke with a special person on my mind. At 6:45 a.m., my mind could think of nothing else but to call Bug, my sister-in-law, and have our usual phone marathon conversation. An urgency to call her kept me from falling back asleep. All week, Bug had been on my mind and all week and I kept putting off calling her as I kept trying to finish things up at the house first. Always trying to juggle tasks and errands and manage Red's company. Get my chores done first before I can have fun. But sadly, later that morning, I learned that Bug had passed away unexpectedly.

She was only 52 years old. I met Bug when I married Red nearly 27 years ago. Quickly, she joined my Favorite People List. Bug always had a way of making you laugh and making you feel good. She saw things from a different angle and you'd always end up laughing. Even with miserable situations...she could help you find something funny in it. What a gift! In Bug's presence, you were always comfortable...never awkward. I hope I have this effect on people as this was one of Bug's many qualities. She was a dear person who leaves behind a huge hole in our hearts.

Recently, I saw Bug at Bob's dad's funeral. I had a lump in my throat the size of Texas as I tried to be smiley, but I couldn't get past the sadness for Bob and Cindy and their children and family. But Bug, in her usual Bug fashion, brought me around and soon we were happily chatting in the parking lot. When we parted, she hugged me tight and said "I love you." It was the first time I'd ever heard Bug tell me this. I've always known she did, but to hear it put me on top of a mountain and I'm still there because of it. :-)

This precious person has left us too soon, and it's really hard to say goodbye, but I do know this, Bug is dancing in Heaven with our Lord right now. Praise God for that! :-) And please pray for Bug's sweet husband, Mike, and their two wonderful children and grandkids. This is going to be hard on them.

Today my thoughts focus on life. Simply life.

Make that phone call to your friend, sister, mom, loved-one, etc. Ignore the chores...they can wait. Hug your loved-ones a few more times. Tell them you love them a few more times. Forget the cobwebs and dustbunnies today...if your daughter wants you to read to her...go for it. If your mom wants to chat on the phone, make the time. If your husband is looking a little bored or lonely, go shake things up for him and put a smile on his face. Take the time to enjoy your life and enrich someone else's. Remember, the little things are what's important. Slow down and take notice of the little things that tickle you or make your heart smile. Thanks for checking in...Kim